New Years is coming and i might spend it alone because i have a social problem. Someone help. its important?

Im in hi skool and the most typical thing to do is to go 2 a party in New Years. Problem is i dont have friends. I mean i hav lots of friends in skool that i talk to but i dont really belong 2 a group. i dont have friends that call me in the weekends to do something. so i no i wont be getting a call to go to a party on the 31st. it sucks b/c my mom is going to a party and i refuse to be to be with my cousin b/c they always do the usual and im tired of it. i feel like im going to miss out a lot in the "social" i tried being frends with one guy but wen we make plans he always says he is going to call me but he never does. he blows me off and i end up alone that night. this happend 3 times. should i call him. i dont want to depend on one guy who might blow me off. wat should ido. i got people's #'s but i dont want to be a pest. theres is 1 group i want to b wit and thats y i tried being friends wit that guy who blew me off. look i just want to spend New Years with people from skool. help